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Sherlene Stevens: Secular vs. Non-Secular Dress Code

First, I believe it is important to know what's appropriate-- in regards to clothing expectations at any work or social setting. If you don't know what is expected of you, or you don't have such garments in your closet . . . then what?!

Then What . . .

  1. Job Interview - Ask the hiring manager what is the work setting like-- before arriving for your scheduled interview. Or simply ask, "Is wearing  a shirt and tie, or pantsuit (ladies) appropriate? [When visiting Big Lots, I am always amazed by the casual, work-clothing style for their clerks and stockers: affordable job opportunity, smiles.]
  2. Social Event - Again, as for a job interview, ask the host what clothing would be appropriate. If you aren't able to ask someone, take a long a nice sweater or jacket (use for cover up or it will simply add to your outfit like an accessory). Make certain the added garment is appropriate for the weather or season.
  3. School Event - It really depends on the school choice. Most public schools will require a casual to semi-professional look.  If you are a teacher, I believe, it depends on the subject that you teach.
  4. School Prom - Review the school of choice's policies.  I don't think it's appropriate for a chaperone or staff to wear see-through garments or short dresses (above the knee) at such setting.
  5. First Date - Go for the casual look; you want to be comfortable for wherever your going. Take a long those flat shoes, ladies. It shows that you were thoughtful in thinking of the event. Who knows, your date may want to go for a casual walk after your meal, etc.
  6. Shopping With a New Friend - Casual unless you're going to a boutique. If you will be trying on clothes, try to wear an outfit that has buttons so that you will not mess up your hairdo.
Also, Wear black or tan undergarments: As James Brown would say, "Please, Please, Please." Please wear black or tan bras and/or panties, ladies, when wearing white or very light garments. If not, you are just a nasty girl :) Even if you don't have a slip (full-long [includes your breast area], half [waist down]), wearing black or tan undergarments would be a great asset. You don't want to wear a slip too short, remember that half-slips come in a variety of lengths. Avoid wearing miniskirts or very short skirts, if you are going to be walking up stairs. Men, the new trend of professional white shirts may require for you to wear an undershirt (plain t-shirt or tank top) underneath--even in the summer.  Try to avoid such shirt purchases, unless you will be wearing a suit jacket: all day or during the entire event.