Skip to main content

Sherlene Stevens: Parents, Five Tips When-- "Enough With The Uploads On Social Media"

Kids and millenials love to place pictures and post videos on their social-media choices. They are encouraged to use such popular tech-trends at school. Today's youth want to participate socialization. They want to share images of productive family-bonding.

So what's the problem?! No problem until . . . little David shares a picture of Mommy cooking dinner in her bra and panties, or Dad in his man-cave watching TV with interesting sounds of actors being heard.

When posting uploads invade privacy of parents or adults, kids may be sternly told,
   
                "Enough with posting our family pictures
 on Facebook [mostly used by global families]. Take it down!"

Parents/Guardians, here are a few suggestions for those pictures or videos captured at the wrong moment:

  • Until you have set household rules of when and what may be posted, no scolding. 
  • Have you ever considered that your parenting style is different than other parents? Why?
  • A love child? ... An affair? ... A double lifestyle? etc. Maybe it's time to explain to your child(ren) why your parenting style requires you to be more discrete--the best way you can (age appropriate). 
  • Create family social-media rules for when you are at a social event outside of your unique home style.
  • You may want to take an awkward picture or video of your child(ren), and allow it to be a learning tool for discussion of household rules.